Trans Sex Toys

Shopping for sex toys when you’re transgender can be intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be! Whether you’ve had gender affirming surgery or not, toys can help you in so many ways.

Ladies first! If you’re a trans woman who has gone through surgery, it might be a little daunting taking your foray into insertable sex toys like dildos and vibrators. Shopping for a dilator kit is extremely important and can make the experience less painful and more natural. A dilator kit is used to keep the vaginal canal open and allow for penetration (whether toys or a penis) once healing is complete. Once you’re comfortable, using insertable toys regularly is another great way to ensure your new vaginal canal stays open and safe.

For trans women who haven’t had surgery, we recommend nipple pumps, wands, and prostate massagers. These are great for stimulating yourself without necessarily having to touch your genitals, if that’s something you’re uncomfortable with.

Now for the guys! If you’re a post-op trans man, penetrating someone with your new penis may be a little scary. Once you’re all healed and ready to start playing, you can start off with masturbators. They’ll let you get familiar with the sensation of a vulva, anus or mouth without the pressure of a human on the other end.

If you’ve never had surgery, there are still tons of toys you can use as a trans man that are gender affirming. For example, you can use lasso-style cock rings on your clitoris, since you can customize the size to fit perfectly. Suction toys are great as well, because they simulate the feeling of oral sex. If you have bottom growth from being on T, our favorite pick is always Body Kisses by GenderX, because it has a wider opening than most other suction toys.